Requests to Refuse
The asks that arrive once someone has decided there is a time-theft problem, why each should be declined, and what to offer instead.
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What not to do
The asks that arrive once someone has decided there is a problem, and what to offer instead of each.
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Covert Investigation
Watching someone without telling them. The narrow circumstances in which it is contemplated, and why it is almost never the answer here.
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How to Decline a Request
Refusing badly loses the argument and the relationship. Naming the reason that lands, and answering the concern underneath.
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